its so hurting when you know about it and yet you can do anything to help solve the problem. am so pissed at him. he makes me all the more fearful of marriage. he makes me all the more weary about getting married. however, one will never know the true colours of a person until marriage. whether the other party will treat you well, if he/she is violent, or he/she is just the way they are once you knew them. but how are we gonna find out till we past the signing of papers and ceremony.
its because of him and some others, made me more cautious about my other half. its because of them, i will go all out just to dig out the truth of my other half and to check if he is lying to me. and when i find out, i'm usually not calm about it, and i became super sensitive when someone just deosnt keep to their words. i guess i will never give my full trust to my other half. i think it'll b very hard for me especially if the person was flirtatious before. sigh. why am i growing up? the more you grow, the more worries and problems you have. and it sucks.
3 comments:
Babe,
The word is faith and trust. You don't have to trust others. Just trust yourself in finding the right person and knowing that he's right.
The treatment and love a person gives after marriage is always gonna be the same as how they are treating you before. When people say that their significant other changed after marriage, it's because they have always been that way and that they did not see it.
Actually, growing up has it's wonders. Growing up gracefully, taking in whatever life throws you. To be young again does not gain you any knowledge. With age, comes wisdom.
As the old saying goes, what doesnt kill you, makes you stronger.
-kiss-
Thanks babe! *hugs*
No worries darling. Be strong!!
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